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Tuesday, December 10, 2024

DECEMBER 2024 BOOKERS MINUTES & MUSINGS, The Wedding People, Alison Espach

                       Love is visible, it paints the air between two people a different color.”

20 Bookers Ho, Ho, Ho’d to the home of our December 8th birthday girl, Kat Mackey, for our holiday brunch and meeting. Many thanks to all who volunteered to cater this event with a delicious assortment of food and beverages, and we appreciate Kim Nalls for organizing everything for us, Virginia Gandy for supplying the champagne flutes, and Ann Ireland for assuming the role of bartender.

We welcomed new members, Suzie Fagg and Kay Williams and were delighted to add Tonya Guillamun to our Bookers’ member list and hope she will be able to attend soon.

On the business side:

Our thoughts and prayers are with KK Mitchell as she recovers from a serious health scare. She is on the mend and in room 274 at UT Health Athens and is up to visitors this afternoon.

Our January 14th meeting will be held at the home of Jane Shaw who will be pulling double duty as hostess and discussion leader for this month’s selection, The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters, a novel centered around a four-year-old girl who goes missing from the blueberry fields of Maine sparking a tragic mystery that haunts the survivors, unravels a community, and remains unsolved for nearly fifty years.

PWC Senior Friends 2nd annual Christmas party is today at 2:00 p.m. at the Mabank Nursing Home. Everyone is invited to help spread some holiday cheer to the residents of the facility.  The PWC Lunch out and a visit to the George W. Bush Presidential Library is Thursday, December 12th; Friday, December 13th is the Pinnacle Club Mingle & Jingle; and Saturday, December 14th is the PWC Christmas Progressive Dinner.

About the author:

Alison Espach’s novel, The Wedding People, is not only a bestseller, but a New York Times Editor’s Choice, a Today show Read with Jenna Book Club pick, a Barnes and Noble Book Club Pick, and the #1 Indie Next Pick for August 2024 and was just named Goodreads Readers’ Favorite Fiction for 2024. She is also the author of Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance, a Chicago Tribune and NPR “Best Book of 2022,” as well as The Adults, a New York Times Editor’s Choice and Barnes and Noble Discover pick. Her fictional audio series In-Depth Market Research Interviews with Dead People is an Audible Original. She has written for McSweeney’s, Vogue, Outside, LitHub, Joyland and others. She received her MFA from Washington University in St. Louis and now lives in Rhode Island where she is a professor of creative writing at Providence College. TriStar Pictures won the bidding rights to produce the film before it was released to the public.

Recap:

From my perspective as a fly on the wall, here’s what I’ve learned about “the wedding people” plus Phoebe Stone., a distraught professor of Victorian Literature. As you know flies do not have ears, but I was able to hear sounds through my antennae and I must say some of the language in this contemporary romantic/comedy was cringe-worthy and not for the faint of heart, the low point being when someone has sex with a vintage car’s tailpipe. I’m pretty sure flies cannot be prudes, but this fly also thought the F-bombs lost their impact due to overuse. That being said, the novel is a story of lovers who turn into strangers and strangers who turn into friends that reads like a guide to personhood. It was a glorious day in Newport, Rhode Island when Phoebe arrived at the oceanfront hotel, The Cornwall Inn, with only the clothes on her back and her dead cat’s painkillers, her plan, to slip away like sand between her fingers and quietly rid the planet of her worthlessness after her husband of twelve years left her for another woman. To her dismay, she was mistaken for a guest of the lavish week-long wedding celebration.  A chance encounter in the elevator with Lila, the privileged bridezilla, changed the course of both women’s lives forever. Lila thought she had accounted for every detail of the wedding week only to learn that Phoebe, the guest in the Penthouse, was bent on unceremoniously checking out of life. Lila begged her to at least wait a week until the event was over. Their unexpected meeting captured how a perfect stranger can sometimes be just the partner you need to get through a crisis as both Phoebe and Lila began to care about someone other than themselves.

The author weaves readers through the individual dramas including the bride’s mother’s nude portrait on display and her documented “day-time-drinking,” the chatter between two dysfunctional bridesmaids, the still grieving widowed groom and his eleven-year-old daughter, the “hot” younger brother of the groom’s former wife, and his dominating sister along with an array of other quirky sometimes annoying family members. As in a Hallmark movie of the week, the girl gets to reject the husband who rejected her, she gets the guy, the built-in family, and the freedom to write whatever she wants.

From this fly’s viewpoint, the evolution of Phoebe from the meltdown of her dead-end marriage and a stalemate career where she was not valued… to a woman who sees a bright future with the jilted groom is cause for celebration. Although the ending was somewhat predictable, it was a happy-ever-after conclusion to a wild week-long ride in the seaside city of Newport.

Discussion:

Bookers’ committee selected this read but that doesn’t necessarily mean we all loved it. We chose it as it was different from our normal and we wanted a “lighter” read for the holidays. Our focus is and always has been on challenging ourselves by stepping outside our comfort zone and this one certainly did that for me. The novel has received over 20,000 ratings, the majority glowing and it’s an Amazon editorial pick as one of the best books of 2024. It was a very popular choice as the vast majority of our group liked/loved it giving it an overall 4-star rating with not one admitting to “not my cup of tea” category. It was touted as hilarious, witty, and laugh-out loud, and wickedly funny with romantic twists and characters that readers will identify with and root for. We discussed how humor is subjective with at least twenty different types, many different versions of the old joke, “How many….does it take to change a lightbulb?” Espach used a mix of dark and sarcastic humor as a literary device to convey her characters true feelings of frustration, anger, love, etc…Through it we learn Pheobe tried and failed at being a good enough wife…she tried and failed to conceive a child…which led to her despair and felt her only choice was to end the misery. On a deeper level, the story focused on mental health issues while tugging at our heartstrings and we talked about whether there was a balance between the seriousness of Phoebe’s despair and the lightheartedness of the character’s interactions with each other…the genre, Romantic Comedy, dictated the balance or lack of it. Rom/Com’s follow a pattern of ten steps always involving two lead characters who are missing something in their lives foreshadowing what’s to come, the meet-cute stage where they meet, the happy together honeymoon stage, the obstacles, the journey to find a solution to the obstacles but new obstacles appear, the choice, to continue or not, the crisis, the epiphany of perfect love, and finally the resolution and the happy-ever-after ending. Early in the novel the author mentions literature tends to have circular endings that are always a reflection of the beginning as we see Phoebe getting a second chance at life and happiness; Lila realizing not everything was going to be perfect no matter how hard she tried finally dropping the “wedding charade” and doing the right thing; Gary was able to accept the death of his wife and move forward with someone else; Matt admitted his mistake with Mia and realized what he had thrown away with Phoebe but in the end he was going to have to move forward without either of them. Phoebe compared her life to a Russian novel where all the characters go on a great wild adventure just to be killed off in the end. A few of us felt empathy for her especially suffering from mental illness and applauding as her character grew. We discussed whether anyone experienced Lila-like-stress at their wedding – my own was very little as in Las Vegas the only issue was getting my dad and future husband away from the crap table in time for the wedding. We talked about Phoebe and Gary – two very unhappy souls – meeting at 3:00 a.m. in the morning in the hot tub forming an immediate bond and whether we guessed how it was going to play out. We didn’t discuss Gary’s daughter, Juice (my favorite character) other than the bond she and Phoebe felt growing up without a mother connecting them emotionally in a way that others might not. Matt’s arriving with his tail between his legs to try to win Phoebe back caused a plethora of conversation, many angry that Phoebe slept with him, but we realized she now held all the cards…he was vulnerable and she catered to his affections, only to prove to herself she was worthy of love, seeing him in a different light knowing she could and would go on without him and he’d have to find another “Mia” to lick his wounds. After Lila realized she couldn’t go through with the wedding to Gary she commented about the entire wedding being a waste to which Phoebe responded “Lila, every day this week, you gave me reason to get up in the morning, to put on a beautiful dress and be part of something, and for that I will always be grateful.” We talked about if we could rewrite the ending, what would it be…seems everyone liked the HEA conclusion!

I’m mad I forgot this little tidbit – I thought I had caught a grammatical error – page 250 with Gary talking about his relationship with his brother-in-law, Jim. “Then they SHAT side-by-side in the woods – who knew shat is the past participle of shit? Not me! Learn something new every day.

May the spirit of the season fill your heart with cheer and bring joy and laughter to last throughout the year. May your home be warmed by love’s gentle light guiding you through the season’s tranquil night. May the gifts you give and the ones you receive be wrapped in kindness and moments to believe. May your gatherings be merry, your table filled with delight as family and friends join hands making spirits bright. And may the stars above shine with heavenly grace, blessing you with peace in this sacred space.

JoDee